Thinking Torah Blog

After years apart from his family and rising to power as the second-in-command in Egypt, Joseph faces a pivotal moment when his brothers arrive seeking food during a famine. Unbeknownst to them, the powerful Egyptian official they are speaking to is their brother—the one they sold into slavery and told their father was dead.

Before revealing his identity, Joseph tests his brothers to see if they have changed. His response is nothing short of extraordinary when he finally makes himself known. Overcome with emotion, Joseph says in Genesis 45:5: "Now, do not be distressed or angry with yourselves because you sold me here; for God sent me ahead of you to save lives." Joseph’s words are striking. After enduring betrayal, slavery, and imprisonment, Joseph could have chosen anger or vengeance. Yet, he focuses solely on helping his family and ensuring their survival.

Joseph teaches us what it means to be a mensch—a person of integrity and compassion. Despite his brothers’ past wrongs, he prioritizes forgiveness and asks a question we might all consider when facing hardship: "Given where I am now, how can I best help those around me?" It’s not always easy to rise above past grievances, but Joseph’s story reminds us of the power of choosing forgiveness and generosity. May we all strive to embody even a fraction of Joseph’s ability to release resentment and embrace the opportunity to make a positive difference.